Arriving in the UK from Inner Mongolia, I had no idea what to expect. I’d always dreamed of studying abroad, but once I got here, everything felt unfamiliar—from the grey sky and quiet streets to the academic expectations and cultural norms.
My first few weeks at the University of Reading were a whirlwind of emotions: excitement, fear, loneliness, and curiosity. Now, after nearly a year, I can say that the transition from school to university, especially in another country, has been both the most challenging and the most rewarding experience of my life.
Adapting to a New Academic System
One of the biggest changes was academic. Back home, school was structured and teacher-led. Here, university life is far more independent. No one reminds you of deadlines or checks if you’ve done the readings. Seminars require active participation like talking to the class or group work, and writing assignments demands critical thinking and referencing skills I wasn’t used to. I quickly learned that lectures were just the beginning. At a university in the UK, you’re expected to build your own understanding through further study.
Time management became crucial. I had to create weekly plans, use calendars, and develop new habits like studying in the library (instead of my bed!). It was hard at first, especially without friends around me from the start, but slowly, I adapted.
Navigating Cultural Differences
Cultural differences also played a big role. In China, students are often more reserved in class. At Reading, students are encouraged to speak up and challenge ideas. At first, I was afraid of making mistakes or not expressing myself well in English. But I realised that everyone was learning, and my perspective as an international student actually brought something valuable to the discussions.
Finding Support and Community
Support from tutors and student services made a huge difference. I attended Study Skills workshops on referencing and critical writing, which really helped me adjust. I also joined student societies and made friends through group projects. Little by little, Reading began to feel like home.
Looking Back—and Forward
Looking back, I’m proud of how far I’ve come. The transition wasn’t easy, but I’ve grown so much – academically, emotionally, and personally. If you’re an international student preparing to start university in the UK, know that the challenges are real, but so are the opportunities. You don’t need to be perfect; you just need to keep showing up and keep learning. Reach out, speak up, and don’t be afraid to ask for help—it’s all part of the journey.